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July 13, 2010

CREATE YOUR DREAM/WISH LIFE

Author: Marinah

Do you ever find yourself daydreaming about what your life …? Is your life heading toward the destiny you dream of? Here’s how to find out.

You’ll need to have paper and a very comfortable pen and peaceful time.


What is your perfect day you want it to be?

Clear your mind and then imagine/visualise your perfect day — the one without any restrictions of any kind.  No worries about time or money or any obligations. A day that belongs solely to you is going to be created by you. Write down every detail.

First begin with the moment you open your eyes. What kind of sheets are you sleeping on… or are you camping in the woods? Describe what you are doing, what you will be eating, what you will be wearing, etc. Keep other people in this as mere sketches. Remember, this is all about you only!


Imagine every little thing on your Perfect Day

As you start your perfect day, what do you look like? Where do you live?
What kinds of activities are laced throughout your day? Be sure to write down even the tiniest detail because not one word that is being written will be insignificant in the final analysis.

Evening is approaching and it is time to close out this magical time. Where will you spend the night? Write everything about the evening, your meal, your companions… don’t leave out anything.

Last how it like your map to your future
Now… read over your day. What does this tell you about yourself? Compare this to your life today. Is there a great difference? What areas in your present life are blocking the flow of your perfect day?

Use this as a map to your truest treasure – the fulfillment of your destiny! From time to time, take it out and re-read it. If each time you read your perfect day, your desires still ring true, you are on the right track. If something doesn’t feel like it “fits” you anymore, re-write the map.

This is your life. No excuses. You can look everywhere and find people who have overcome incredible odds to become everything they had ever dreamed of being. There is no difference between what these people have done and what you can do. Not one single difference!

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We’ve all heard the old adage, “With friends like that, who needs enemies?” and although we are aware of the ways in which our friends can benefit or harm our lives, it is up to us to choose our relationships accordingly. However, there are times when it’s harder to spot those individuals whose camouflaged bad intentions surreptitiously eat away at our happiness and self-esteem (the very definition of a “frenemie”). Therefore, it’s in our best interest to delve into the heart of our relationships to determine if we have a real friend in our midst, or a frenemie.

1. Her Compliments Have Degrading Overtones
When our friend compliments us, are her words riddled with barely-veiled insults that end up cutting us down instead of making us feel good? Unfortunately, certain women are jealous of and threatened by all other women, including their female friends. Their way of responding to this threat is to make the other women around them feel “less than.” If we hear comments such as “You don’t look as big in that dress” or “Your hair is cuter than you usually wear it” from our “friend,” we can be sure they don’t have our best interests at heart. No matter how sweet-toned their voices or how big their smiles, their words are meant to hurt, and at the same time, to make themselves feel better at the expense or our self-confidence.

2. She is a People-User
Does a particular girlfriend always need something from us, but is mysteriously unavailable the minute we need a favor? Do we feel exhausted when we see that our friend is calling again, because we know it will invariably concern something else she needs? Genuine friendships are reciprocal and characterized by a healthy give-and-take, so we need to watch out for one-sided relationships that drain us instead of supporting us.

3. She’s a Disloyal Flirt
Having a big flirt for a girlfriend is one thing, but when her behavior knows no boundaries and she is shamelessly hitting on our ex-boyfriends and current boyfriend alike, we need to seriously reconsider her loyalty as our friend. Anyone who would make a pass at our mate, even an ex, without discussing it with us first, is obviously only looking out for number one and has no consideration whatsoever for our feelings.

4. She’s a Grudge-Holder
We all need to stick up for ourselves when someone is disrespecting us, but it’s important to make our peace and move on. Some women simply can’t do this and end up behaving eternally catty and spiteful to every person they believe has done them wrong. Usually, women like this are quick to judge and equally quick to go to the mats where dirty fighting is the rule and psychological carnage is the result. Our best strategy is to avoid these nightmarish individuals before they eventually come gunning for us.

5. She’s Two-Faced
A good friendship is composed of trust and honesty, where each friend can be the other’s confidante. If our friend is sharing our secrets with others or insulting us behind our backs, we can be sure they are not really our friend. The important issue about people with big mouths and petty personalities is that they usually get caught spouting their disloyalties sooner rather than later, in which case we can dump these surface friendships quicker than you can say “frenemie.”

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May 18, 2010

THOUGHTS FOR TODAY!

Author: Marinah
 
If you believe ‘you can’ and have the strong desire to do so, then despite setbacks, it’s your will power that makes you ‘try, try, try again’.  Both ‘will’ and ‘power’ are relased when you go from ‘will do’ to ‘doing things willingly’!

 


Message for the day 17 May

  

Our correction is effective when we become an example.

Projection:

When we find our self correcting others, sometimes we do find our self in situations where someone is not listening to us.  Even if the correction is given with love it does not seem to work.  So we find our self at a loss how to make the other person understand.

Solution:

In order to make our words effective, we need to apply them in our own life.  When we first apply it in our life, we will become an example for others around us.  Our words would then surely have an impact on others.

Message for the day -16 May

 

Patience enables one to easily overcome obstacles.

Projection:

Usually, when faced with obstacles there is an urgency to remove it without any proper planning.  That means we want to overcome the obstacle without putting in any effort.  And when it is not possible, it tends to create impatience and frustration in us.

Solution:

It is important to do some internal work to overcome an obstacle.  First, it is good to check to what extent there is faith in the self.  With faith in our self, we need to plan out before we act to remove or overcome the obstacle and we find our self successful.

Message for the day 16 May


Our power enables us to look after and use the treasures within us.


Contemplation:
Within us are a lot of treasures – the treasures of thoughts, time and virtues that we have not been using fully. The power within us enables us to recognize and use these treasures in a worthwhile way. The more we are able to work with them we find them increasing.


Application:
We need to remind our self of the treasures within us and try and discover which treasure we have that we can work on. Even if we think of a simple specialty of ours which we could make use of, we would find it increasing and we would find others benefitting too.



 

 

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February 25, 2010

THOUGHT FOR TODAY

Author: Marinah
 

Resistance only leads to a build up of buried emotional energy.  It’s only a matter of time before it explodes. 
So, whatever emotions emerge,
become aware of them,
acknowledge them,
and then accept them. 
Start with acceptance.

 


Message for the day

  

 

Happiness is earned by those whose actions and attitudes are pure and selfless.

 

Contemplation:

 

When the actions are pure and selfless there is no trace of negativity.  Where there is no negativity, the mind becomes free from feelings of guilt, fear etc.  This automatically ensures constant happiness.

 

Application:

 

If there is no happiness, there is definitely some kind of negativity.  So check the actions that we perform.  Let them be not only for our benefit but also for the benefit of all and we will find that we are able to be in constant happiness.



 
Brahma Kumaris
105A Solok Serani
Off Jalan Kelawei
10250 Penang Malaysia
Tel
: 604-2288209, 6013-4301229
em:
penang@my.bkwsu.org
 
web:
www.bkwsu..org
web:www:just-a-minute.org
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January 29, 2010

HOW TO HEAL THE GUILT OF THE PAST

Author: Marinah

EGO  IS  AN  INSANE  AND  SPOILT  US…                          

DESTROY  US..

BELIEVE  YOUR  THOUGHT  AND  NOT  YOUR  EGO…

1)  Let go of feeling ashamed for your past, there is nothing wrong with you. All past experience has brought you the information that you needed in order to transform yourself into the image and likeness of  the Universe. Tell yourself that you are here in a place where you are more aware and that this is good news because Unirverse has used everything from your past to teach you about forgiveness. EVERYTHING must be forgiven.

2) See all the people in your life that you still react to as being actors on a stage. Know that by acting in unloving ways, they are bringing your own guilt to life! You can heal it when you feel it!

3) CLOSE YOUR EYES and feel yourself becoming more and more grateful to them, because without seeing your reflection, you wouldn’t know yourself. This is the process of ‘mirroring’ and this is the healing gift they offer you. That is why gratitude is the only thing you owe to your brother enemies, for without them you would not know yourself. They literally show you what you need to forgive inside your own heart. Forgive yourself and those that have hurt you.

Every nite you can do this….on the bed, u sleep down, put both your hands up in the sky..and say this..

” I will create a healing to myself with my (people’s name)………., theres a healing and there is a miracle to come.  I will be willing to and channel to you God to create love by you God. I want healing to heal myself and let go this person in peace..i bless this person with abundance of good things in his life,  good health, good life, prosperity, good business and good relationship with his mate” .

4) Quietly thank each and every one of them for having done their job well, because you now understand the issues you came to deal with this time around, and what it is you need to let go of.

5) The moment when you know how to let go, the new life path of you will grow and transform. Trust me and It’s always a good news!

If we scold back, we are creating double trouble. We are creating a teaching of sin to the other person. We can feel guilt. That is why, lets be open heart from the bottom till the top..and let go the past.

 

FREE YOURSELF BY CONFRONTING THAT PERSON YOU HATE ALL THIS WHILE WITH

 

  “I LOVE YOU AND I FORGIVE YOU”

 

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