MARINAH NUMEROLOGIST

This is very very true! a husband is not there juz to make money, a wife is not there juz to share your bed and make breakfast for you..Love did not happen between you to just share a timetable, but daily routines could break a marriage..LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST WITH YOUR SPOUSE, IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE. To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married.         

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking.

I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?  I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved my lover, Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which
had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing.

I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible.. Her reasons were simple: our son had his
exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt his study due to this broken marriage.This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd
request.

I told Dew about my wife’s divorce conditions .. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms .. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce .. I nodded, feeling somewhat
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily .. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time ..Irealized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.                                                                                            

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.                                                                                                                                          

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.                 

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway.

Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked
intimacy.

I drove to office .. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind .. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because                    
she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us
apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - lying dead. I know how her heart could not bear to hear my last words now. I still carried her, my last one…this time with my wreatched heart.                                              

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah.

These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a
real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you..If you do, you just might save a marriage.

A man’s fate may be likened to the four wheels of a motor-car. The horoscope (date of birth) constitutes one-quarter hands and face another quarter; the name one quarter and geomancy (ancestors’ tombs and the environments in which one lives) makes up the remaining quarter. If any one of these is not good, it would be like having a puncture in one of the tyres. This in turn may, in a minor case, cause some alarm or, in a serious case, the loss of the motor-car and human lives.

      Most people are mistakenly under the impression that if a man is born under the right horoscope he will grow up to live a life riches and luxury. The fact is, however, for all his good horoscope and imposing appearance, he may still lead a life of frustration and failure. Why? Because in order to really understand a man’s fate, it is essential to study all four, horoscope (date of birth), hands and faces, geomancy and “Science of Names”. Because one’s name is being used or not being used, it will still vibrate the particular person.

          One’s name may be compared to a car that is being driven everyday. If one of the engine parts breaks down or is incorrectly installed, the consequences could be grave. The modern name-study is based on the principle of ‘gears’ in machines or mathematics that enable the rocket to reach the moon. The miscalculation of the spaceship’s journey would have failed to land men on the lunar surface. Similarly, if the number stroke of a name are wrongly written, the name cannot hope to achieve his goals in life.

                I have had people go from financial troubles to financial success, doubling and tripling their incomes in little time after name changing. And also had people come to with health concerns and regained their well-being. Couples on the brink of divorce , now living the happiest, romantic and richly fulfilling relationship i know of.

                  If you have doubt about your chinese name, you may email me at marinah_numerology@hotmail.com to check on your chinese name. Type in your chinese name character and we will reply to you FREE.      

Good day to hang red cloth :-

 Thur – 9am to 11am        11/2/2010      (Anti dragon and Dog)

Friday – 9am to 11am      12/2/2010      (Anti snake and Pig)

Saturday – 9am to 11am  13/2/2010      (Anti Horse and Mouse)

  People may ask why you hang the red cloth (the one on your main door) so near to

the 1st day of the Happy Lunar Year? It is because the vibration of the red cloth may

be more energetic and more vibrant when the more closer the lunar year. You may even

can try this; the moment you hang up the red cloth, you can immediately go and buy 4

digits numbers from Magnum, Toto or Kuda for the Saturday’s draw (13/2/2010)

Buy small will do Rm1.00 big Rm1.00 small, no greed ok! Chances high you may  

 strike! Haha..remember  belanja me at Coffee Beam. Not only that, you may even good

luck or done deals with clients if to purposely meet up with your client that day. Many

good luck!

I WISH MY CUTE MUM AND DEDICATED DAD, MY BROTHER AND SISTERS, MY LOVING SONS , MY RELATIVES, MY FRIENDS, MY CLIENTS  AND PEOPLE OF THE UNIVERSE, MAY ALL THE GOOD THINGS JUST HAPPEN GOOD TO US, WITH GOOD HEALTH, JOY AND HAPPINESS, PROSPEROUS AND WISDOM. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS!  LOVE FROM MARINAH.