MARINAH NUMEROLOGIST

Jennies in Manila writes:

When I was 30, I had recurring dreams of saying goodbye and crying to a man in a military uniform. It was always the same scene, at a train station somewhere in France. In the last dream I was in a wedding dress and crying. I woke up in tears. That was the last time I saw him. Was it a soul memory?

Hello Jennies,

Yes, I believe you were recalling a past-life journey. There are several clues that tell you if a dream is about a former life. First, the dream’s environment, people, and situations will be unusually realistic. Also, the surroundings, clothing, and other elements might be from another time period. Perhaps most important, as in your case, such dreams evoke deep feelings that can stay with you long after you awaken. The dreams took place when you were 30, and you’re 42 now, so they obviously made a profound impression on you.

However, past-life dreams  usually don’t just appear out of nowhere. Something triggered your memory. It could be that you met the soul-mate who was the military man. Or it could be that you’re presently facing some issues that resulted from your experiences during that lifetime. For instance, the dream suggests that you were prevented from being together with your husband-to-be, either through his death or another circumstance. As a result, you may have been born into this life with a fear of abandonment, which might lead to a resistance to making a commitment with someone you love. Or you might have an intense aversion to war, the military, or even trains. I would suggest trying to connect the dreams to what’s happening in your life (or was happening when you were 30) and see if they illuminate any issues you need to work through.

       The business started by a man “A” is running very well, gives regular profits, and improves

very well, while the business of another man “B” never runs well, and the business is unable to

bear the loss in the business. He closes the business. What is the reason for this?

        It is because, in the first case, the name of the business or the company formed is under

a lucky number, while in the second case it is not.

        Hence, before starting a business, it is most important for every person to give the name

to his business according to his fortunate number.

Do you ever find yourself daydreaming about what your life …? Is your life heading toward the destiny you dream of? Here’s how to find out.

You’ll need to have paper and a very comfortable pen and peaceful time.

What is your perfect day you want it to be?
Clear your mind and then imagine/visualise your perfect day — the one without any restrictions of any kind.  No worries about time or money or any obligations. A day that belongs solely to you is going to be created by you. Write down every detail.

First begin with the moment you open your eyes. What kind of sheets are you sleeping on… or are you camping in the woods? Describe what you are doing, what you will be eating, what you will be wearing, etc. Keep other people in this as mere sketches. Remember, this is all about you only!

Imagine every little thing on your Perfect Day
As you start your perfect day, what do you look like? Where do you live?
What kinds of activities are laced throughout your day? Be sure to write down even the tiniest detail because not one word that is being written will be insignificant in the final analysis.

Evening is approaching and it is time to close out this magical time. Where will you spend the night? Write everything about the evening, your meal, your companions… don’t leave out anything.

Last how it like your map to your future
Now… read over your day. What does this tell you about yourself? Compare this to your life today. Is there a great difference? What areas in your present life are blocking the flow of your perfect day?

Use this as a map to your truest treasure – the fulfillment of your destiny! From time to time, take it out and re-read it. If each time you read your perfect day, your desires still ring true, you are on the right track. If something doesn’t feel like it “fits” you anymore, re-write the map.

This is your life. No excuses. You can look everywhere and find people who have overcome incredible odds to become everything they had ever dreamed of being. There is no difference between what these people have done and what you can do. Not one single difference!

We’ve all heard the old adage, “With friends like that, who needs enemies?” and although we are aware of the ways in which our friends can benefit or harm our lives, it is up to us to choose our relationships accordingly. However, there are times when it’s harder to spot those individuals whose camouflaged bad intentions surreptitiously eat away at our happiness and self-esteem (the very definition of a “frenemie”). Therefore, it’s in our best interest to delve into the heart of our relationships to determine if we have a real friend in our midst, or a frenemie.

1. Her Compliments Have Degrading Overtones
When our friend compliments us, are her words riddled with barely-veiled insults that end up cutting us down instead of making us feel good? Unfortunately, certain women are jealous of and threatened by all other women, including their female friends. Their way of responding to this threat is to make the other women around them feel “less than.” If we hear comments such as “You don’t look as big in that dress” or “Your hair is cuter than you usually wear it” from our “friend,” we can be sure they don’t have our best interests at heart. No matter how sweet-toned their voices or how big their smiles, their words are meant to hurt, and at the same time, to make themselves feel better at the expense or our self-confidence.

2. She is a People-User
Does a particular girlfriend always need something from us, but is mysteriously unavailable the minute we need a favor? Do we feel exhausted when we see that our friend is calling again, because we know it will invariably concern something else she needs? Genuine friendships are reciprocal and characterized by a healthy give-and-take, so we need to watch out for one-sided relationships that drain us instead of supporting us.

3. She’s a Disloyal Flirt
Having a big flirt for a girlfriend is one thing, but when her behavior knows no boundaries and she is shamelessly hitting on our ex-boyfriends and current boyfriend alike, we need to seriously reconsider her loyalty as our friend. Anyone who would make a pass at our mate, even an ex, without discussing it with us first, is obviously only looking out for number one and has no consideration whatsoever for our feelings.

4. She’s a Grudge-Holder
We all need to stick up for ourselves when someone is disrespecting us, but it’s important to make our peace and move on. Some women simply can’t do this and end up behaving eternally catty and spiteful to every person they believe has done them wrong. Usually, women like this are quick to judge and equally quick to go to the mats where dirty fighting is the rule and psychological carnage is the result. Our best strategy is to avoid these nightmarish individuals before they eventually come gunning for us.

5. She’s Two-Faced
A good friendship is composed of trust and honesty, where each friend can be the other’s confidante. If our friend is sharing our secrets with others or insulting us behind our backs, we can be sure they are not really our friend. The important issue about people with big mouths and petty personalities is that they usually get caught spouting their disloyalties sooner rather than later, in which case we can dump these surface friendships quicker than you can say “frenemie.”